Here are practical suggestions for disciplining with love:
Calm down (BREATH IN, BREATH OUT).
Correct children when you are calm and collected, not when you're frustrated and angry.
Try to understand your child's misbehavior before you discipline.
Use consequences. PlayfulnessAcceptanceCuriosityEmpathy 
Consequences teach HUMANS how their actions affect their own and other's lives.
 
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